Peace over a cup of coffee

Please allow me to introduce myself. On second thought, I’m not especially important. In a world of 8 billion people, I’m just one of them. And yet — and yet — I serve a God who cares about every sparrow and every flower in every field, so perhaps just maybe he cares about me, too, and you, and so I should care about myself and about you and about those 8 billion other humans. We are all irreplaceable, beings who will pass this way only the once with our unique set of circumstances and experiences and what is it that makes us.

As long as I have paused to contemplate what to write next, let me get my first cup of coffee.

Coffee is among so many miracles of human experience. How did someone years ago decide to try grinding the beans and boiling the results to produce a comforting drink with the power to wake the senses? Look at a coffee plant; how do you make that leap? And what insight prompted humans to generate electricity or forge metal or assemble days into seconds, minutes and hours? How do you go from living in caves to building caves, or from scrawling words on paper to sending your words to every corner of the earth?

Every mind is a miracle, our every act an accumulation of all that has gone before and an expression of hopes and dreams. And when one of us has lost hopes and dreams and even prayers — when, for example, he/she begins to believe they are only one of 8 billion people and that thought drifts into melancholy — we must lift them and remind them that each life is worthy of notice by the God of our universe — or if, which is also true, none of us is worthy, then we must share our gratitude for that God’s eternal love, and in God’s footsteps we should love one another, even those who did not get the memo and have sworn to be our enemies.

If I love my neighbors, no one is my enemy, and if you see yourself as my enemy, then you are gravely mistaken, but it will not change the fact that you are my neighbor and I love you.

This is not an easy attitude to maintain, and when I struggle at it, I am grateful to the God of the universe for setting the example.

And here my pride starts to creep in — “These are good words,” I say to myself. “I must share them with the world.” Who am I to think any of my little thoughts are big enough to share? But even someone who is no more important than anyone else may say something that others may want to contemplate and share. One of those no-more-important-than-anyone-else people once upon a time suggested boiling coffee beans to make a beverage.

And so I write these thoughts down in a book meant for myself, but also meant to launch what thoughts may benefit others. This is my message to myself, and I share it on paper (and later in bytes) in small part with the hope and perhaps even the belief that others might see dare-I-say wisdom in them.

I begin to lose the point when I begin to focus on who I am or try to assign any value to my words, although I must admit the source of my message did say “Love your neighbor as yourself,” and so if I am to love my neighbor I must also find love in my heart for myself. And so I write these words and say, “Here are my thoughts; what are your thoughts? Yours are as important as mine, and as we listen to one another and find common ground, we move forward in peace.”

And there, at last, perhaps, is a description of the process that led to discovering how to make a pleasant beverage from a coffee plant.

Pay With Cash

Listen to the song:

The best advice I’ve ever given myself was to stay out of debt. “Self, always remember: The borrower is slave to the lender,” I told myself. But the lender’s siren call is awfully hard to resist: “Just buy this one thing on credit, and then when it’s paid off,  you’ll have everything you need.” That’s the foot in the door, and the next thing you know, debt service is a routine part of your monthly budget.

I thought I’d learned my lesson back in the mid-1980s. I dug myself a hole so deep that bankruptcy court seemed like the only option, and after that humiliating experience I pledged, “Never again,” and I wrote myself a little blues tune called “Pay With Cash” to remind myself.

It’s still the best advice I ever gave myself, and I sure wish I would listen to me. At least I got a nifty little tune out of it.

Save your money; pay with cash.
Put your plastic in the trash.
Take no credit; pay your dues.
Earn your interest; it’s yours to choose.
The loan man’s going to smile as he bites you with the lash.
Save your money; pay with cash.

You can have it here today;
You can have it, but you’re going to pay.
You can have it; it ain’t yours —
Till you pay them, it’s the store’s.
Till you pay them with your cash, you can’t have it your way.
Save your money; pay with cash.

There used to be a dreamer, never struck me as poor,
He said, “Boy, there ain’t no dream that ain’t worth working for.
You let them drop it in your lap, it won’t taste half as sweet.
You want to get from here to there, boy, use your feet.”

And save your money; pay with cash.
Put your plastic in the trash.
Take no credit; pay your dues.
Earn your interest; it’s yours to choose.
The loan man’s going to smile as he bites you with the lash.
Save your money; pay with cash.
The loan man’s got a whip, he’s going to bite you with the lash.
Save your money; pay with cash.

“Pay With Cash,” © 1986 w.p. bluhm. All rights reserved.

The fourth guy

I love the story of Shadrach, Meschach and Abednego. You can look it up in the Old Testament book of Daniel, Chapter 3. I’ll give you the condensed version right here.

King Nebuchadnezzar of Babylon was a fairly vain fellow who ordered construction of a 90-foot-high statue of himself in gold, and he decreed that people should worship the statue. Anyone who refused would be tossed into a furnace.

Well, this did not go over well with Shadrach, Meschach and Abednego, who were followers of the One True God, and so they declined the king’s invitation. 

The king was not used to people disobeying his decrees, and so he had the three men rounded up and brought before him. He gave them one last chance, but they were not buying it.

“O Nebuchadnezzar, we have no need to answer you in this matter,” they said. It’s not clear if one of them was the spokesman or if they all gave this answer in kind, but they put it pretty plainly: “Our God whom we serve is able to deliver us from the burning fiery furnace, and he will deliver us out of your hand, O king. But if not, be it known to you, O king, that we will not serve your gods or worship the golden image that you have set up.”

I love that: God is perfectly able to save us, and we’re sure he will do so, but even if he doesn’t, we serve him, not you or your silly gold statue.

And so Nebuchadnezzar had them tied up and tossed into the furnace.

And boy howdy, was the king surprised at what happened next.

“I see four men unbound, walking in the midst of the fire, and they are not hurt; and the appearance of the fourth is like a son of the gods,” said the king, somewhat nonplussed. A lot of scholars will tell you this is an Old Testament sighting of Jesus. In any case, Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego came out of the furnace without any burns or other damage, and Nebuchadnezzar admitted they served the One True God.

I love the story of those three guys. Most of all, I believe in the power of that fourth guy.