Reasons for love

Every moment of every day presents us with choices. At the end of the day, the answer to the inevitable question, “How was your day?” turns out to be a summary of the choices we made in those various given moments.

One June day eight years ago, I conjured a little poem about making those choices. I included it in my first (or third, depending on how you count) collection of blog posts, a little book called A Bridge at Crossroads: 101 Encouragements

It’s not an especially great poem, but I think about it from time to time when I think about how we’re always making choices. I thought about it again yesterday, when I wrote about choosing joy and finding reasons to rejoice wherever we turn.

Love is the same way, because love is a choice in the same way joy can be chosen. The marriages that last are the ones where both parties have chosen to love each other, and for better or for worse. So, too, can an attitude of love be a choice in our interactions with one another. That’s what I was trying to say here.

Love anyway

When weariness overtakes you
And your fuse is short,
Love anyway.

When the slap of reality hurts
So bad you want to lash back,
Love anyway.

When the loss is so deep
You can’t see straight,
Love anyway.

When you’re tempted to quit
And go running away forever,
Love anyway.

That’s what love is;
That’s why it’s called love.

Somewhere in space

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Somewhere in space is a planet
full of peaceful beings —
they are boring in our sight
because they live in peace
with one another.

Our stories are about conflict
and the clash of ideas and cultures —
Not much space for peace in our space.
I mean, what kind of fight could you have
when everyone is willing to
live and let live?

It makes you just
want to punch someone in the face,
except that’s no way to live in peace.

A morning prayer

Now I get me up from sleep

I pray the Lord my soul to keep

If I should die by end of day

I pray the Lord takes me His way

Mostly meaningless

When ghosts walk by on a sunny day,
Do they stop to chat about old Bombay
Or simply banter along the way
While we, left behind, enjoy the day?

And if I die before I sleep,
Will they greet me by the chimney sweep?
I know this song’s not very deep — 
I bought the rhymes here on the cheap,

The lyrics hardly make a sound,
And I lie hopeless on the ground,
Hoping one more sleeping hound
Will find just what needs be found.

This is a mostly meaningless poem
I found one day that I took home.

April Fool’s!

What if all the things I announced over the years were just April Fool’s jokes?

• I’m going to write a trilogy of novels about a kaiju named Krayatura.

• My next novel, Jeep Thompson and the Lost Prince of Venus, will be published by the end of 2021. It will be the first in a series.

• I’m going to do a series of podcasts reading the Myke Phoenix Novelettes and eventually turn them into audiobooks.

• I’m going to release at least one album of my homemade music recordings this spring or summer.

• I’m going to publish 12 books in 2025.

Right! That’s the ticket — they were all April Fool’s pranks. Sorry, I hope you didn’t get your hopes up.

On the other hand — wouldn’t it be cool if they came true?

all the firsts

There are not many things in life that are as sweet as a love that is returned in kind, especially in the sparkly magic of the beginning.

The first hug, the first kiss, and where it all leads, all the firsts so familiar and so brand new all at once. 

It feels like forever, but of course we know it all must end someday …

But not today! And today can be forever all in itself. 

He doth not sleep

“The fruit of the spirit is love, joy, peace, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness and self-control.” We are tempted to hang our heads like Longfellow and say, “There is no …”

But, like Longfellow, when we lift our heads back up, we are likely to discover “God is not dead, nor doth He sleep; The Wrong shall fail, the Right prevail, with peace on earth, good-will to men.”

It’s everywhere we turn, in the smile of a child watching a puppy scamper across a yard, in the hug of a friend in an hour of need, in the laughter of an old man with a long-lost friend, in the tears of strangers leaving a sentimental movie together, in the strains of a street musician’s lonely song, in the rustle of birds taking flight all at once, in the murmur of young lovers with their foreheads touching, and a hundred other sights and sounds every moment, every hour, every day.

This appears to be a harsh and divided world until we lift our eyes to meet our neighbors’ and see the common ground on which we stand — the hope for a better tomorrow, the willingness to live and let live, the fruit of the spirit.

This is a grand and glorious world inhabited by grand and glorious people and surrounded by so much that is grand and glorious.

Of course, many people spend their time with fingers pointed at much that is wrong with what they see, missing the many bits of evidence that The Wrong will fail and The Right prevail. It’s almost as if they have a vested interest in The Wrong. I’m not here, however, to question their motives.

I’m simply pointing out the obvious: The fruit of the spirit is in evidence everywhere we turn, if we will simply look and see.